We focus on individuality. We focus on people. Everyone has a right to be able to be themselves and express themselves. You don't need labels for that. We need acceptance of people as individuals.

I don't need to label you as "trans" or anything else to listen to you, believe you are a person with rights, accept you as an individual and support and defend your right to be yourself. Labels only get in the way of that.

I suspect that you don't really relate to other people as "trans" but as people. The word "trans" doesn't enable you to relate to another individual as a person. That is, unless you are using labels for oppression--declaring that a person is only acceptable if you can label them.

On the oppressive use of labels, I discuss in the article.

"Defining identity according to labels is the instrument of oppression. Oppression works by dividing people into groups and recognizing one group as having rights and all other groups as not having rights. At the core of oppression is bigotry which creates labels to designate groups and assert power over them."

Also, please refer to my other article on this subject: https://medium.com/inserting-philosophy/the-problem-with-the-transgender-label-64f822db4aea

"To label me is to negate me," Kierkegaard said. I refuse to negate you and hope you will never negate anyone.