What you say about "other-centered individualism" is very interesting to me. That's not a term I remember hearing before. How you describe it is similar to an argument I made in a recent article. I am curious your thoughts on the kind of mutual respect for the equality of others that I advocate here: https://medium.com/inserting-philosophy/how-about-we-just-get-rid-of-gender-labels-altogether-7190b234eeb7